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3rd Annual PHC Sisterhood Luncheon

So0o0o... What Should I Wear??

Though this was the 3rd luncheon, this was my 1st time going. Confusion can erupt when trying to determine the appropriate attire for a luncheon, especially if you're unaware of the type of crowd that will be in attendance. I admit I was unsure myself, but radio personality Egypt Sherrod of 107.5 WBLS answered all questions with her gold cocktail dress and showed us that there is room to be a DIVA at a luncheon!





Of course the CARDINAL RULE, always and forever and a day, is to do MORE before LESS and to be OVER dressed rather than UNDER. Fatigued from a weeks worth of events, I kind of pushed the rule to the back of my brain, but I'll be on point next time!!


Are These the New Crocs?

Vibram Five Fingers



So apparently these Five Finger shoes are the new "shoe-thing". As I've ventured back and forth to the city (NYC) via train these past couple of months, I've noticed individuals, both male and female, wearing these shoes. Just recently I was close enough to see the actual brand(Vibram), and took it upon myself to google it.





Like Crocs they come in different styles and colors, but being made of better quality materials I assume, Five Fingers range on average from $80-$150..{hmmm}




They come in white..



With zippers..


Even with laces!



Now this is no EUREKA! These shoes didn't just come out 2 months ago..I DO however, predict an epidemic in the near future.

Supposedly
they are to be worn for extreme sports like rock climbing and hiking, but when is footwear ever worn for its intended use?? (rarely)



So before things get CRAZY, here is my opinion for obvious DOs and DONT's with Five Fingers:





DON'T
..come on now, do I really have to explain?





MMMM MAYBE... golf IS a sport, not really extreme. But you know what, it might be extreme as it gets with some folks!




DO! When I first saw these shoes, I automatically thought swim shoes...then I realized we were on the train, and I wondered why he was wearing them..





ANYWAY, I could definitely see myself wearing these on the beach, if they didn't cost so much!

MORE ON VIBRAM FIVE FINGERS

The Job Hunt: Where Do I fit in?


As a college graduate of course you're not at the top of the food chain employment wise, but you're certainly better off than those at the bottom!

(Wave that degree at anybody who thinks differently!)



Common mistake, in my opinion, that's made by recent graduates is:

They aim LOW, and fall SHORT


The correct formula is:

Aim HIGH, and fall somewhere in the MIDDLE


I know how it goes. You're on the hunt, you see the jobs you want, but grow intimidated by the requirements ie:3-5yrs experience in the field. Don't let that turn you away! Apply anyway!

The worst that could happen is they inform you you're "not what they're looking for at this time."

They're not going to charge you a resume fee(like colleges did for applications..remember that?? poor kids, I know the prices inflated these past 4/5 yrs)

...or call you and scream at you for even thinking you were a match for the job. You never know what might spark their interest on your resume, so send one in and see!


Another important factor is taking it one step at a time. Yes, the big picture is getting the job, but that comes in a series of events. Focus on the first course of action, and when that's done THEN move on to the second..and so forth. Trying to do it all in one SHABANG! is NOT going to work.

ADVICE: Do the monkey bars to get to the tire drills, complete the tire drills to get to the hoop, and THEN worry about jumping through the hoop..

Or in other words write your cover letter and resume to get the interview, work on your interview skills to get the job, and THEN worry about going to work and performing :)

Who Has The Better Swag??

Diamond vs Ciara

Though Diamond's remix to Soulja Boy's Pretty Boy Swag came out first, Ciara's seems to be the most talked about. Could it be that her swag is better? Take a look and listen..

(Swag: appearance, style, or the way he or she presents themselves)



LISTEN: Diamond - Pretty Girl Swag








LISTEN: Ciara - Pretty Girl Swag